slackmistress
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Member Since: 2/16/2008
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Gender: Female
Hometown: Glen Ellyn, IL
Tagline: AntiSocialite
I Am Here For: friends
Relationship Status: married
Occupation: Writer. Blogger. Vlogger. Nerd Yenta.
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Aug 20, 2008 1:55 AM
I am finally finishing the latest script that I have been avoiding like the plague. Your Productivity with posts and Tweets have inspired me. Thank you, Slackmistress! -

Also, Just noticed you hail from Glen Ellyn. I was just there a week ago - Visiting Family back there. I knew there was something " Midwest" about you . :)
Aug 04, 2008 7:02 PM
Like the new bloggers. You can never get enough of nerd girls!
Jul 24, 2008 12:27 PM
hey,
nicee page you got here. interesting blog :)
Jun 24, 2008 1:51 PM
I'm not hating on the Nerd Girls - I think education is a fabulous thing. I hate the idea that the thing that's supposedly amazing is that they like lipstick and high heels and things that "typical" girls like. Which may be more a function of how the Newsweek writers wrote them (and I think I even say this in my post) rather than who they are.
Sam B. from ...
Jun 23, 2008 11:41 PM
The whole idea of the NERD GIRLS arose because of a lack of females in the engineering community. The founder is a female professor who felt that she had to overcome to reach the same levels of success that she saw her male counterparts encounter with less [whatever] - typical story in any field.

The point then, that you can extrapolate, is that the NERD GIRLS are meant to be an outreach program. The image of the NERD GIRLS you see has little to do with the actual program, an image created by studios and photographers to sell an image to the bright lights and flashy colors media machine.

The NERD GIRLS are meant to show that girls who tend to shy away from science at a young age because of the stigmas attached to the 'Nerd/Geek/Whatha veyou' community which dictate that you cannot be both 'wanted/beautifuf ul/recognized/pop ular' and also study hard and use your brain for something other than color matching and body painting.

The NERD GIRLS are a good thing. Did they sell out the name a little by doing a super upbeat photoshoot/video shoot, sure. Will there be any negative side-effect as many of you have suggested, absolutely not. This will not cause girls to forget that they are smart. This will not cause girls who are smart to long for beauty any more than every magazine and tv show you've ever heard of already does. Hating (if i may use a colloquialism) on the NERD GIRLS seems to be nit-picking minor aspects of how you 'wouldn't have done this or that' and much less about constructively criticizing a group that is seeking to promote the value of education. So you're against education? Now I understand your point of view...
Jun 13, 2008 7:32 PM
thanks for the add.
be sure to check out my blog.
LesaMay
Jun 03, 2008 6:04 PM
Waiting for the DVD. But not anxiously waiting.

xo,
LesaMay
ThisIsDeadAir.tv
May 30, 2008 12:14 AM
Love the site! That was the best smack in the jewels since "Man hit by Football in Groin" won an Academy Award. I enjoyed the science lesson as "pain receptors" let the body know to elevate pulse heart rate, etc... Maybe next time they'll show us how the amazing human body will shut down to protect itself when hit repeatedly in the head with a shovel. Sport truly is a sweet science.
May 22, 2008 11:32 AM
I can't seem to keep up with your blog, but I am still lovin' it. xo
May 21, 2008 1:23 AM
You follow direction very well...
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June 24, 2008 3:48 PM  (go back to main view)
We Have a WINNER!
By slackmistress
And the winner of Antisocial Networking's "Coming Out Geek" contest is...
Embedded Media

Make sure to email me at slackmistress[at]gmail[dot]com with your address.

And good luck with Antisocial Networking's second contest, "My Nerd Crush!" You can check out the prize (truffles from Polidori Chocolates!) here, see what people have been saying, and check out Dawn's Polidori blog

NOTE: Like the previous contest, the entries that will be selected for the finals will have some sort of story or a tale behind them. Thanks for playing!
Blog Comments (10):
Posted by cailement on
I, like several above, never really got into it. I mean, yeah, I'd hear about what a nice show it was, but at the time I didn't have HBO, so it was kinda a moot point. Then, later, I'd watch an episode here or there, but it wasn't really my cup of tea. I mean, I can stand a movie of similar subject matter (fashion and or chic flics, I loved The Devil Wears Prada, and I go totally gooshy over romantic comedies), but I never really wanted to commit to caring about the characters long enough to get me through the entire series--which is what I figured it'd have to be, seeing how the few random episodes never caught me I'd have to start at the beginning. This might be unfounded (seeing how I didn't watch the show, I don't know for sure), but I prefer my shows to have more of . . . a continuing plot with characters I could relate as well as personal growth and change over the course of the show. Having a supernatural theme helps too, but that's just because you can get more plot points out of it than anything else, I think.

I'm more likely to see the movie, because it is just a movie, than I am to rent and watch the entirety of the show, but I'm not gonna spend my money paying movie theater prices for that kind of flick when Indiana Jones and Iron Man is out there demanding my big screen movie going budget. I might catch it on Netflix or cable.
Posted by Suicidal J... on
Congrats Discotrash! You should change your name to DiscoTreasure.
Posted by Karen on
Congrats!
Posted by Sarah (the... on
Truman Capote, hands down.
Posted by Wolven on
It's An Honour, Just To Be Nominated *cue strained smile*

Seriously, though, congratulations :)
Posted by MyraB on
Oh, nerd crushes. While my little girlie friends were dying for dudes like Kirk Cameron, I was foaming for...

Christopher Walken.

It started when I watched The Dead Zone and realized that all of the creepiness wasn't really creeping me out. In fact, no matter what he did, Chris (cuz we're tight like that) was just plain hot. So, I started to keep my young, pre-teen eye on the lookout for him.

The universe blessed me with the best treat: aside from being the theater nerd who started seeing Shakespeare plays before I even read them, I almost passed out from excitement over the news that I would get to see Coriolanus. Why? Because Christopher Walken was starring.

It was a dream come true... Until we got there. As we made our way to our mid-theater seats (in a very small theater), there were people sitting there -- with the same tickets. Oh wait, it was even more of a dream come true -- we were lead down to other seats -- front row seats which meant our feet were resting on the stage. The stage that would be filled with the wonder of Walken.

For the entire show, I watched, enraptured, my jaw sagging and my pre-teen hormones in a whirlwind. At one point, so close that I could touch him, he gave me a little smile.

It was one of the best experiences ever, and since I saw his larger-than-life self in person, he's always been my main man, no matter how many wrinkles he has, or how many teleprompters he has to read during SNL. Heck, I even ironed his face onto my underwear.
Posted by Caveman on
How about a future nerd crush?
Posted by Daniel Spi... on
This is going to be difficult for us guys to really compete with I suspect. There are far more geek(y) guys portrayed then the geek girl. If I was going to throw out one of my nerd crushes it would probably have to be Romana I from Doctor Who back when Tom Baker was playing the part of the Doctor (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romana). Runners up would have to include Tank Girl (from the movie) and Sculley from the X FIles.
Posted by Caveman on
Congratulations to the person who won that wasn't me.
I'm not even bitter...
Posted by discotrash on
Honestly everyone else's entries were so good I'm completely surprised! Thank you everyone!
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