slackmistress
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Member Since: 2/16/2008
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Gender: Female
Hometown: Glen Ellyn, IL
Tagline: AntiSocialite
I Am Here For: friends
Relationship Status: married
Occupation: Writer. Blogger. Vlogger. Nerd Yenta.
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Aug 20, 2008 1:55 AM
I am finally finishing the latest script that I have been avoiding like the plague. Your Productivity with posts and Tweets have inspired me. Thank you, Slackmistress! -

Also, Just noticed you hail from Glen Ellyn. I was just there a week ago - Visiting Family back there. I knew there was something " Midwest" about you . :)
Aug 04, 2008 7:02 PM
Like the new bloggers. You can never get enough of nerd girls!
Jul 24, 2008 12:27 PM
hey,
nicee page you got here. interesting blog :)
Jun 24, 2008 1:51 PM
I'm not hating on the Nerd Girls - I think education is a fabulous thing. I hate the idea that the thing that's supposedly amazing is that they like lipstick and high heels and things that "typical" girls like. Which may be more a function of how the Newsweek writers wrote them (and I think I even say this in my post) rather than who they are.
Sam B. from ...
Jun 23, 2008 11:41 PM
The whole idea of the NERD GIRLS arose because of a lack of females in the engineering community. The founder is a female professor who felt that she had to overcome to reach the same levels of success that she saw her male counterparts encounter with less [whatever] - typical story in any field.

The point then, that you can extrapolate, is that the NERD GIRLS are meant to be an outreach program. The image of the NERD GIRLS you see has little to do with the actual program, an image created by studios and photographers to sell an image to the bright lights and flashy colors media machine.

The NERD GIRLS are meant to show that girls who tend to shy away from science at a young age because of the stigmas attached to the 'Nerd/Geek/Whatha veyou' community which dictate that you cannot be both 'wanted/beautifuf ul/recognized/pop ular' and also study hard and use your brain for something other than color matching and body painting.

The NERD GIRLS are a good thing. Did they sell out the name a little by doing a super upbeat photoshoot/video shoot, sure. Will there be any negative side-effect as many of you have suggested, absolutely not. This will not cause girls to forget that they are smart. This will not cause girls who are smart to long for beauty any more than every magazine and tv show you've ever heard of already does. Hating (if i may use a colloquialism) on the NERD GIRLS seems to be nit-picking minor aspects of how you 'wouldn't have done this or that' and much less about constructively criticizing a group that is seeking to promote the value of education. So you're against education? Now I understand your point of view...
Jun 13, 2008 7:32 PM
thanks for the add.
be sure to check out my blog.
LesaMay
Jun 03, 2008 6:04 PM
Waiting for the DVD. But not anxiously waiting.

xo,
LesaMay
ThisIsDeadAir.tv
May 30, 2008 12:14 AM
Love the site! That was the best smack in the jewels since "Man hit by Football in Groin" won an Academy Award. I enjoyed the science lesson as "pain receptors" let the body know to elevate pulse heart rate, etc... Maybe next time they'll show us how the amazing human body will shut down to protect itself when hit repeatedly in the head with a shovel. Sport truly is a sweet science.
May 22, 2008 11:32 AM
I can't seem to keep up with your blog, but I am still lovin' it. xo
May 21, 2008 1:23 AM
You follow direction very well...
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June 24, 2008 3:48 PM  (go back to main view)
Sheepling; aka Good People Day
By slackmistress
D'you know Gary Vaynerchuk? If not, you should. Gary V. is the host of Wine Library TV, although he came to my attention through his personal website, garyvaynerchuk.com, and Twitter. Gary's been waxing poetic about the Web 2.0 community, a place where your name is your brand and the product is you. And he does that in the mos successful way possible - he's genuine, he's likable, he's energetic without being over-the-top. And he's also what I consider to be the best part of the Internet - accessible.

Anyway, Gary got it into his head to create an Internet Holiday - Good People Day - singing the praises of those who make this community a community. I wanted to participate, but my concern is that this can come off as an awards speech, where it's not so much about the people you name but those who are inevitably left off.

Then Jodi went off and gave me a Excellent Blogger Award, so I took it as a sign that today I had to participate. I know it's a made-up holiday, like National Delurking Week or my husband's birthday. But lately I've spent a lot of time on this side of the screen feeling depressed, cynical, or down-out desperate. So it's time to take a step back and say thank you.

But I'm still not going to name names. Because I don't know everyone's name. Because today I want to single out you, the people reading this. The audience. (My audience?) Some of you I've had drinks with; some of you I've exchanged emails with; some of you I know only from a the uptick on my stat counter to tell me that you've been here. You have helped forge my identity. You have given me my voice. You have reminded me that I have something to say. You have provided job leads. You have given me a shoulder to cry on and a kick in the pants. You cheered me on when I met my husband. You have erased the line betwixt "Real Life Friends" and "Internet Friends."

Today, Good People of the Internet, it's my turn to say thank you.

InternetloveThank you.

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